Adult Gamers and Their Ulterior Motives for Gaming 203
twistedcaboose writes "The Philly Inquirer is running a nice little article about why parents game with their children. Seems that adult gamers are still on the rise." From the article: "In a national survey released in January, 35 percent of 501 parents living with children age 2 to 17 said they played computer or video games, according to the Entertainment Software Association. Of those, 80 percent also played with their children. On average, these fathers and mothers - yes, almost half were women - spent 9.1 hours a month gaming with the children."
duh! (Score:5, Funny)
duh! its easier to defeat a kid..
Re:duh! (Score:5, Insightful)
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Teamgames also require some good communication-skills
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I value my arteries.
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By simply listening for footsteps you can track people well enough to trace them with your crosshair.
Lots of terribles accuse/ban players for simply knowing how to use sound and where to wall.
Re:duh! (Score:3, Insightful)
You haven't played RTS games lately have you? They figure out what is the uberish unit early on and rush your ass. Which if you're not prepared for totally owns your ass. So you have to play into their hands and they beat you through know every little trick of the game and using tactics they found on a forum perfected for tournament play.
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Maybe it's just me but I'd rather everyone had fun than being top of the leader board. Go figure.
Re:duh! (Score:2)
I really knew it was bad when one of my friends stated they love it. This friend hates Starcraft. This friend also dislikes games with story elements. This friend was also able to defeat me in about a minute or two.
C&C Generals is not RTS. Its a top-down twitch-jerk.
*sob* I miss Westwood.
Re:duh! (Score:5, Insightful)
Don't know about you, but when I was younger playing MegaTF on Quakeworld, we were doing offense vs defense training and tactics twice a week for weekly 12-on-12 CTF league matches. I'm proud to say that at one point, I was the top ranked Pyro in the world, and could use evasion, communication and guerilla tactics to penetrate and disrupt the flow of just about any defensive strategy. I imagine young people today are doing the same sort of thing, and generalizing them as poor thinkers and strategists is both prejudicial and stupid.
Re:duh! (Score:2)
I would never say that there's no thought invovled, but I would certainly say there's less though, and that's coming from some who played just about every major FPS from the day they were released.
Re:duh! (Score:3, Insightful)
No.
TBS and RTS games, at the current level of implementation, follow the "click-on-build-dwarf, attack-with-dwarf-army" click-fest. Some games are worse than others, where there is an extremely early rush tactic that wipes everything out. (Civilization included, since enough militia can wipe out a battleship - and "enough" is suprisingly small based on the combat mechanics.)
Even
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Once it's obtained, others are sure to follow. It may take some mental strain but only for the first group of times you do it.
Re:duh! (Score:2)
Well, even in real life a battleship might not be so good at attacking a walled city in the mountains ;).
Re:duh! (Score:2)
What more do they need to know beyond "zerg rush?"
Re:duh! (Score:2, Interesting)
A friend and I play almost every night and we almost always get top of our team. Mainly because we are on TS and working with intelligence and planning. Helps we are both killer shots.
We just need Ea and Dice to "SORT OUT THE BUGS!!!!" and we'll be fine.
Virtua Fighter 2, (Back in the Day). (Score:2, Interesting)
Re:Virtua Fighter 2, (Back in the Day). (Score:2)
If you don't know how you lose then winning is a gamble. The best way to become unstoppable is to find a strategy that is hard to figure out, that way when you beat someone you can still beat them the next time. Basic rules of power, art of war stuff, though I've never read those two.
Anyway my point is it sounds like he beat you because he cared more, in which case congrats: You have a life.
Re:duh! (Score:2, Funny)
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"Whosyourdaddy!"
"You are, uh, dad"
I'm a sick, sick man
"Darn!" (Score:5, Funny)
I'd be a little more impressed with that TV, missy. That's your college education you're looking at.
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And frankly, $2000 is cheap for a HDTV that big, especially if it was bought a year ago.
Re:"Darn!" (Score:2)
Yes, pretty high. Assuming more than 10% is unreasonable, and most assume more like 8%. At 10%, you end up with $5,200.
And frankly, $2000 is cheap for a HDTV that big, especially if it was bought a year ago.
At the moment, Best Buy has 52" projection TVs from $1100 to $2600.
But what of it? $2K is a relatively small part of any family's budget, especially for something that a fairly long time. I've spent more than that on cable/internet in the last two years. (And, in
Re:"Darn!" (Score:2)
$8000 isn't an entire college education, but it's nothing to scoff at. The $2000 price tag on that HDTV set could pay for a quarter all by itself.
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Women want to be with him, men want to be him.
-Eric
Did anyone else read the headline (Score:5, Funny)
Pr0n with my parents would just be a bit odd...
Re:Did anyone else read the headline (Score:2)
Damn... and I just ate.
Re:Did anyone else read the headline (Score:2)
And yet your sig says:
Are you 100% sure your dad and/or relatives don't post to Slashdot?
Cause if they did... that'd be kinda gross. For you at least.
Re:Did anyone else read the headline (Score:2)
Pr0n with my parents would just be a bit odd...
Damn... and I just ate.
And yet your sig says:
Are you 100% sure your dad and/or relatives don't post to Slashdot?
Cause if they did... that'd be kinda gross. For you at least.
I love insight from people with nicks like "TubeSteak".
Re:Did anyone else read the headline (Score:2)
Uninsightful (Score:5, Insightful)
People who enjoyed playing football as kids, watch football as adults and live vicariously through their kids playing football.
The only people who wouldn't expect this are people who didn't play games as kids. They also happen to be the social types with lots of misconceptions about what 'normal' is.
There's nothing to see here, move along.
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Hold on one sec, FunPhone call.
Yes Goofy, I like talking to you too.
As I was saying...
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Sorry I have no mod points for you.
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s/Goofy/The Boss/g
Pretty much the more things change, the more they stay the same.
The cow says Mooooooo! (Score:2)
-Eric
Re:Uninsightful (Score:5, Insightful)
Spoken like someone who makes "adult" something I never want to "grow up" and turn into - And I say this as a 30YO.
And don't assume that I am a pyshco parent who doesn't let his kids have any fun.
Uh-huh. Spoken like a true psycho parent who will do anything to deny it.
Do you even remember why you played games as a kid?
We get to slave away 40+ hours a week for the majority of our lives. Let the buggers have fun while they can.
BTW, what the hell does
Just asking means it refers to you. You may have escaped as a child, but have since apparently bought into the lie full-on.
It means people who consider childhood wasted on children - Why, just think of all the productive activities they could engage in, like memorizing dates and multiplication tables, social networking, part-time jobs, and backstabbing their way up the young Republicans club ladder!
No. Kids just want to play and have fun. And I say, "let 'em".
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Anyway, I'll bite:
Uh-huh. Spoken like a true psycho parent who will do anything to deny it.
Yeah, and you certainly have enough information to make that judgement.
We also limit how much TV the kids (and we) watch (we don't have cable, on purpose), and plan to discourage smoking and excessive underage drinking. Call DSS.
Do you even remember why you played games as a kid?
Si
Re:Uninsightful (Score:2)
Yeah, me too. That's how I got molested for the first time.
Oh Juan, I went into that shed a boy and came out a man. How I miss your special games.
-Eric
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Not that games are bad but I can understand a parents point of view but at the same time don't beat yourself up for "wasting time" playing games that you could have supposably spent being more productive or successful, likely enough without the stress relief of gaming you could end up a lot worse off rather t
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Speaking as a parent of a 3 year old and a 6 month old, I think the 'butt heads' things is a bit weird. My kids get to watch virtually zero TV but enjoy mucking about with me on the computer and playing simple games. This isn't competitive any more than playing with play dough is, or building train tracks (OK, I build a mean train-track). It's a way of sharing some fun. And if she learns to handle a mouse, so be it.
I only play for one reason.... (Score:5, Funny)
Nothing To See Here (Score:5, Insightful)
Heck, back when I owned an N64 my dad used to get in rounds of Goldeneye and Mario Kart with me and my brother after school. And he had never really touched a game system before, except for brief spurts on the systems that we owned before that (NES and SNES).
This might even be seen by some as an improvement over the television habit that many parents have and pass on to their kids.
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All the natural (Score:5, Insightful)
As Huizinga points in his book (Homo Ludens), since 1939 and before, play is part of culture. And play is inevery aspect of our lives.
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Gaming with my son (Score:4, Informative)
My son, 12, and I often play PS2, or multiplayer PC games together. Crash Team Racing, or Gauntlet on the PS2, and assorted games like Age of Sail II, etc, on the PC. We have fun, and that's what counts.
Better than dumping them in front of the TV (Score:5, Interesting)
When I was a kid, I didn't have a computer or console until I was 11, and that was a second hand 8-bit CPC464. My mum played Stockmarket [cpczone.net] with me but that's about it.
And it is good to have your parents play games with you, it makes it more social, it stops them watching TV (oooh, Timeteam is on, must speed this post up) and probably sharpens their mind a little, counteracting the gradual decline due to everyday life they otherwise suffer.
It's good for bonding too, too few parents do this. And the parents can see what the games are like and if they're suitable.
I'm sure it will lead to more rounded teenagers and adults, better able to cope with problem solving and jumping from ledge to ledge, as you do.
co-operative play (Score:5, Funny)
Real simple (Score:3, Funny)
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Man #2: Yea, bro, I've noticed he's getting worse by the day.
Man #1: Yea, I'm thinking I should get him to move in with me, so my wife and I can watch over him close. Would you mind helping out on the weekends?
Man #2: Yeah, right!
Man #1: What do you mean?!
Man #2: You remember when we played Enemy Territory? And he'd covert ops our asses left and right?
Man #1: Yea... and he'd always voip over to use "You've been pwned noob! Just cuz he's got your uni on doesn't mean he's on your team. LOL!"...
Man #2: Send the fucker to a home.
Man #1: Yeah... what was I thinking?!
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-Eric
I play 2 games with my 5-year old (Score:5, Informative)
He loves them both and so do I.
http://planeshift.it/ [planeshift.it]
http://heroscapehq.com/ [heroscapehq.com]
What a stupid article title! Family gaming is fun! (Score:4, Insightful)
I've been a gamer since the Commodore 64 days. Why do I play them? Because they're fun, perhaps? So many of these articles act like it's shocking that those who grew up gaming are (shocking!) still gaming and (more shocking!) getting their kids involved with gaming.
Why would I play games with my daughter? Because it's something that we can do together without the rigamarole of Want to play this? No. Want to play that? No. We know what games we like to play as a family, and it's at least better time than just sitting around watching TV.
Having been a gamer for 20+ years and having a wife who's really not into gaming, this is a great way for me to finally have a gaming partner. Sure, I'm not about to let my 6-year-old play Battlefield 2 (not that she could anyway), but even something as simple as Mario Kart 64 is still fun!
But for me there's an even more important aspect. Those who don't have kids - and even some parents, unfortunately - might have difficulty understanding that kids want their parents' attention. Yes, I want my BF2 time, but if given the choice between BF2 or some N64 game with my kids, the N64 will win every time. I get to have fun; my kids get to have fun; and I get to show my kids that I'm willing to spend my time doing things with them. That means a hell of a lot more to me (and my kids, I'm sure) than getting a Veteran Support Badge while my kids sit watching TV.
The "ulterior motive" (Score:4, Informative)
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Kiddie gamers becoming adult gamers... (Score:4, Funny)
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The Belgian SP.A [s-p-a.be] already did. Overhere we don't work with Presidents, but or ministers sortof function like one, so it's about the same.
In essence, they state a child growing up in relative poverty thus being unable to grow up with a PC and internet is put behind in development and wont get as much chances as a child having access to a PC and information found on the internet as a PC is considered a requirement these days for education and work. So the S
You are never to old to have fun! (Score:3, Insightful)
Sample size is too small (Score:4, Insightful)
With a sample so small, this is speculation masquerading as data.
Re:Sample size is too small (Score:2, Informative)
Learn statistics before you make statistical claims.
Seriously, as much as I hated stat this year in college, it was a damn useful class, and everyone should have to take it in high school. Until you actually know a bit about how this stuff works, it's surprising how misinformed you can be. All sorts of stuff is masqueraded as "statistics" in the media, when a lot of it's just plain BS. People have so many misconceptions about stat it's not even funny.
And yes, it's still true that there are lies,
Ulterior Motives (Score:4, Insightful)
I just enjoy the games and the time spent with my son. I also like to game with him because it lets me see how he reacts to competition in a friendly environment. I get to give him advice on how to handle winning and losing.
The only ulterior motive I can see (Score:4, Insightful)
So they can say "Hey, it's not like I wanna play. It's the kid, and I gotta play with them because, as a responsible parent, I should know what they're doing... Damn, I'm outta rockets."
Re:The only ulterior motive I can see (Score:2)
He didn't get into video games with me much, but it was him who started me on computers. We did play a lot of Sim City and similar games back in the day though. He also got me a GameCube for Christmas a year ago, just what a college senior needed. You never need to grow up all the way.
The wife and I game with our youngins, too (Score:5, Interesting)
Of course, we also found that we were suffering from "video game tummy", until we stumbled upon DDR (Dance Dance Revolution). All of a sudden there was another game, one that involved some exercise, that also keeps all of us interested, but also draws in the other kids. They all want to play. It's one of the few activities (short of watching "Finding Nemo"...again...) that everyone gets into. Everyone wants in, and everyone has a blast doing it. The game is easy enough yet challenging enough so nobody gets bored or feels like they can't do well.
I love gaming with my kids. My kids love gaming with me. It's a hell of a lot cheaper than taking them to a game, too!
DDR's hidden dark side (Score:5, Funny)
Meanwhile, every time a new DDR title is released, thousands of downstairs-apartment-owning tenants cry out in agony...
my father's idea of gaming... (Score:5, Funny)
"Here you go son, I got some new games for you."
"But there's only a memory cartridge in the machine!"
"No, the games are in here," he'd say, patting the stack of magazines. "Let me know when you have something typed, in so we can play together."
Re:my father's idea of gaming... (Score:3, Interesting)
I was almost depressed.
It took me hours to type that much code, and I couldn't even run it.
A novel idea (Score:5, Funny)
Gaming with my 5 year old (Score:5, Interesting)
As for my kid, he has known me as an addicted Medal of Honor player since he was born. He became fascinated at three by watching me play that and Battlefield. He loved Battlefield but would get auto-kicked off too much for either killing himself to much by driving his jeep to fast or he would just wonder around exploring. Medal of Honor Freeze-tag objective became his game. I explained the rules to him. You get a point for unfreezing and a point for freezing someone, besides that, plant the bomb. He wasn't very good at three but did figure out how to open doors and would shoot someone once in awhile.
Now at 5, even though he still can't read, on a ~30 person server with ~15/team he is placing in the top 4 or 5 for his team. He gets most of his points by simply unfreezing his teammates, but he also pulls in a good score from freezing. I think his biggest advantage is he is completely unpredictable. What amazes me is that people on the server are always trying to talk to him. He plays so good they don't even realize he is just a little kid whose little fingers have to really stretch across the keyboard to even play. What boggles me is, who are these people that have lower scores than him? I wonder how many other children are out their dominating us adults in games and we don't even realize it.
Re:Gaming with my 5 year old (Score:2)
Obviously it IS amazing how quickly some children can learn. And I too always wondered who those people were, until I played with one for some time and when I was dead follwed him and saw his choices. This bad player and many other like him don't play like it is a game, they aren't committed to the objective of the game.
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Absolutely, nor, necessarily, should they. The opinions on this matter vary, but it really is OK, so long as you read out loud to them regularly, have lots of age-appropriate books in their space, and let them see you reading, for instance, take them to the library, and get books for yourself too. They practically teach themselves under these circumstances, when they're ready.
What concerns me here is that kids are trained to shoot people shortly after they learn to walk. Yay, let's naturalize war for them early on. I mean, WTF? GIGO.
Re:Gaming with my 5 year old (Score:2)
I'm 31. When I was five years old, there were no home computers or consoles, or at the very least, none that could manage anything more advanced than Pong.
One of my lasting memories of that age is of playing war in the school playground. A big group of us (all boys, now I come to think of it), running around "shooting" each other with our fingers, st
The kids would easily beat me unless we ... (Score:2)
The kids would easily beat me unless we play on my old video game [ipal.org].
Real content (Score:2, Insightful)
Depressing for kids (Score:4, Interesting)
Bonding and button mashing (Score:4, Interesting)
The only problem that I have is that, IMHO, most 20somethings and younger are button mashers and not actually skilled gamers. They like to think that they're good at games but, again IMHO, not really. They totally lack creativity, strategy and tactics.
For example, we usually play the football titles. When a new version comes out he'll spend a day or two experimenting with the offense until he finds a handfull of pass plays that he can use every time regardless of what defense is called. He'll practice only those plays until he gets the timing down just right so that no matter what you do his receiver will catch the ball 99% of the time. For the most part, he will totally disregard the running game because, at least I think, he can't time a pattern like you can with pass plays.
Whether that's a problem with the game or not can be debated. However, it just gets boring when it's the same thing over and over. Rather than try having fun with different alignments, different receivers, running the ball, or whatever, his one and only concern is winning even though, I believe, he sacrifices his pride with timing rather than actually becoming good as something.
Re:Oh, the pain. (Score:2, Interesting)
I still regularly kick my stepson and his friends arses in Quake4, UT2004 and C&C generals zero hour. Also a good game of Mariokart is usually a good time for a smackdown where out of 10 races I tend to be the victor overall.
Every once in a while A new friend of his comes along with some skills until I learn his pattern and start the Ownage.
Yup 37 and can kick the arse of any teen in a FPS. It's all about prediction and less about twitch skills.
Yes I used to go to lanpartys all the time back when
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I couldn't help but notice (Score:2)
I can't imagine any other reason you'd scream "Then who Pwnz who, eh?!?"
Anyways, all the comments on this article remind me of the Chappelle Show "Make A Wish" sketch
http://media.putfile.com/2Funny-Chapelle-Show-Str
It sums up the "Then who Pwnz who" spirit
Re:I couldn't help but notice (Score:2)
"I'M the future Billy! I'M the future!"
Re:Doom! (Score:3, Informative)
When we're all at home, we play Soulcalibur. The version depends on whose house we're at, but it's something almost all of us can get into. I play, my guy plays, my brother plays, my sister and her guy play, and Dad plays. Mom...
Re:Ten bucks says... (Score:2)
Don't forget drinking. I'm a very good drinker... but I have a job and no kids... I guess I needed to take up the slack elsewhere.
Re:Ten bucks says... (Score:3, Interesting)
I'm 48, have a BSEE, make about $100K/yr and play regularly with my teenage sons games such as WoW, CS, Total War, Battlefield, and random RPGs. My wife (a pharmacist) plays console games and online board games (fps type games make her a bit dizzy). Most of my friends are engineers, lawyers, research types... all play at least console games though many play FPS and MMO type games. My first computer game was Adv
Re:Uh oh (Score:2)
You quit making jokes like, lad, or you're going to have to answer to me, Father Murphy of the Boston Archdiocese!