Game Addiction Clinic Swamped 249
Via the Gamers with Jobs Press Pass, an article on The Australian site claiming that the Dutch gaming addiction clinic is swamped with fearful parents and glaze-eyed children. From the article: "Although experts are still debating whether excessive game playing counts as an addiction, Mr Bakker has no doubt that the symptoms are the same. 'If we see a car burning outside, we don't sit around wondering what to call it,' he said. 'It is not a chemical dependency, but it's got everything of an obsessive-compulsive disorder and all of the other stuff that comes with chemical dependency.' Tim, a 21-year-old from Utrecht, said he had hardly left his bedroom for five years because he was so obsessed by his computer games. "
Group therapy for gamers? (Score:5, Funny)
Simms Online (Score:2)
Like having AA meetings at a bar during Happy Hour!
I can't go to the clinic... (Score:2, Funny)
Re:I can't go to the clinic... (Score:2)
Re:I can't go to the clinic... (Score:5, Insightful)
Likewise, a lot of retired people play golf all afternoon six days a week. Are they "addicted" to golf?
Gaming is just another form of recreation, and like any form of recreation, some lazy slobs will do it to the point in which it interferes with their various "obligations" (school, work, family, etc.)
That's hardly the same thing as somebody who suffers violent withdrawal symptoms when they go for a day without cocaine.
Re:I can't go to the clinic... (Score:5, Informative)
That's because very few of them have any obsessive compulsion to watch TV. You put them in a room with a TV and they'll watch it... its the path of least resistance to entertainment for a lot of people; for most of them its just lazyness.
If you give them something else to do they won't get all anxious and grouchy until they can sit in front of the TV again. They might have a favorite show or two, or go out of their way to catch specific event... but they don't habitually miss work & school, stay up all night, skip meals and showers, and abandon their friends, just to put little more time in with the TV. If "a lot of people" started doing that then we probably -would- call them addicted.
With video games, particularly MMOGS, however, this is exactly what they do. They'll spend every available waking moment playing them. They will give up their friends, they will skip meals, they will skip school & work.
They aren't "lazy" at all. Laziness requires a certain level of passiveness. "Addicts" aren't passive. Quite the opposite - they will go to great lengths to keep playing as much as possible for as long as possible as often as possible.
Whether or not its a chemical addiction with pysiological withdrawl effects or purely psychological doesn't really matter. Like compulsive gambling, it effects a surprising number of people, and it hits them hard. It is a real problem, and ignoring it or pretending its not real because theirs no obvious chemical dependancy isn't going do anyone any good.
Re:I can't go to the clinic... (Score:2)
For some reason when it's TV or sports or anything like that, it's seen as ok, even when people ARe obsessive about it (I know obsessive TV watchers) hwoever when it's games, oh my god, something horrible must be wrong.
This is not to
Re:I can't go to the clinic... (Score:2)
I've never met anyone addicted to gambling myself. Nor have I ever met a gaming addict, nor a drug addict, though I have known some potheads (however I generally wouldn't count them as "addicts").
I have, however, k
Mod parent lair!!!!!111!!!one!!!!!11111 (Score:2)
Re:I can't go to the clinic... (Score:2)
Broadly, the withdrawal symptoms have been overstated by the government agencies for almost all drugs, as a way of scaring people off them. They get cooperation from drug addicts, who also overstate the withdrawal symptoms because it gives them an excuse for
Re:I can't go to the clinic... (Score:2)
Some people compulsively read the Holy Bible once a week. Strange.
Won't be swamped after first patch (Score:3, Funny)
Re:Won't be swamped after first patch (Score:3, Funny)
Where are the parents in all of this? (Score:4, Insightful)
His parents were frightened of him because, weighing more than 130kg, he was too strong for them to confront. Eventually they threatened to kick him out unless he enrolled for a month of therapy.
You're the parents, you make the rules. Pull the plug, take the computer away, do something, anything. You'd probably hit the roof if you caught your kid with a joint, but when he wants to wrap himself up in computer games you just fucking sit there and let it happen. That shit pisses me off. I hope this clinic is working with parents too to make sure they can control their child's behavior.
Re:Where are the parents in all of this? (Score:5, Insightful)
Re:Where are the parents in all of this? (Score:2)
Do something. Like turn the computer off and tell the kid to go play outside for a while? Is it really any different from 20 years ago, when parents worried that their kids were hurting th
Re:Where are the parents in all of this? (Score:2)
It's far kinder to the fragile ego of a modern parent to say their kid is "addicted to games," "has been corrupted by violent media and boobs on TV," or "has a chemical imbalance that requires pumping them full of Ritalin" rather than "I wasn't there when I should have been."
Even the parents who aren't too c
Re:Where are the parents in all of this? (Score:3, Interesting)
Life is full of mistakes, problems and other nasty things and the only way we'll ever progress is if we learn from them. That's the most important lesson anyone should learn, ever, and as lon
Re:Where are the parents in all of this? (Score:3, Insightful)
Re:Where are the parents in all of this? (Score:2, Interesting)
Today's "counter culture" sucks pretty much. I mean, look at th
Re:Where are the parents in all of this? (Score:2)
Re:Where are the parents in all of this? (Score:2)
Child? That's kind of the wrong word for a 130 kg (285 lb) 21-year-old. It makes sense to be apprehensive over how an addict that size might react when you take away his addiction.
More to your point would have been the 6-year-old whose parents could do nothing but have a "chat" with him.
Re:Where are the parents in all of this? (Score:2)
What was he going to do, chase them? Jokes aside, they raised him; if they were afraid of what he might do to them, they have only themselves to blame.
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Re:Where are the parents in all of this? (Score:2)
It's not that simple for some parents, some parents are simply never around, that and there are other factors. Many t
Re:Where are the parents in all of this? (Score:3, Insightful)
Depends on where you live and if you fear for your life with your kid. One of the major problems in inner cities on the east coast is many single mothers fear their 15-18 year old that is in a gang and is involved with drugs and guns.
So much to a fact that they fear if they stand up to their kids they will be physically hurt by them or a gang member. I remember reading in a newspaper about one single mom tu
Re:Where are the parents in all of this? (Score:5, Insightful)
Maybe when someone is deciding how to handle a problem with their own child, doing anything isn't good enough? Maybe they want to do the right thing
It's odd to me that some Slashdotters take "the parents should be responsible" to mean "the parents should do all parenting alone". Parents are responsible for the behavior of their children, but if the behavior surpasses the parents ability to moderate/fix/heal, then why on earth should we mock the parents for seeking specialist help? Are we going to make fun of all youth counselors and child psychologists now because "You're the parent, you make the rule?" Part of holding parents responsible for their own children should be allowing them access to the tools they need to do that job right.
-stormin
Re:Where are the parents in all of this? (Score:2)
Re:Where are the parents in all of this? (Score:2)
The rest was a reaction to a sentiment I've seen reflected across several other posts in this topic.
-stormin
The problem isn't seeking a specalist (Score:2)
Re:take care of your own kids (Score:2)
Possibly the most assinine thing I've seen on slashdot. So if you have to take your kid to the MD you are a bad parent? Genius, sheer genius. Let's go find every kid who has seen a doctor and take them from their parents.
If you have a child with a mental disorder (and gaming is NOT A mental disorder), then there are tests that can determine that. Then take the appropriate a
Re:Where are the parents in all of this? (Score:2)
Yeah, that 130 kg (286 lbs) is pure muscle. The dude's totally ripped from sitting in his room, eating pizza for 5 years. Strong... yeah, strong smelling.
Remember parents, what did the five fingers say to the face? SLAP!
You don't understand... (Score:3, Funny)
He had a fearfully strong grip and thumbs that could kill with a twitch!
Re:You don't understand... (Score:2)
My name is Krelorc the Overlord... (Score:5, Funny)
Re:My name is Krelorc the Overlord... (Score:4, Funny)
I am Lokomala, level 60 warrior, Nathrezim, and I have an addiction to phat lewt.
Re:My name is Krelorc the Overlord... (Score:2)
wha? (Score:3, Interesting)
Re:wha? (Score:2)
Besides, I already get dibs on the PS2 games.
Re:wha? (Score:2, Insightful)
People hooked on things that don't carry an external chemical componant, or are only very mildly chemically addictive, don't have that problem. Yes, addiction can be purely neurochemical,
Re:wha? (Score:2)
Besides that, I agree 100% with parent. I play a lot of videogames too, sometimes addictively, but I still can push the power button to enjoy other things.
Re:wha? (Score:2)
Which is why people can't just apply willpower.
And very often the addiction isn't really cured, but rather is replaced with another less-destructive addiction, such as the common scenario of the alcoholic who substitutes bible-thumping for booze.
Re:wha? (Score:5, Insightful)
In 2003, my best friend bought EQ at the urging of one of his co-workers. After two months of him nagging me incessantly to try it, against my better judgement, I did. Everything started out fine, him and I would log on for 2-3 hours a night to play together and that was it. About two months into it, him and I were asked to become officers in our guild. At the point you become an officer, you suddenly feel a whole lot more responsibility and you feel like you're important - everyone in your guild counts on you. Not long after, I became our raid leader and, given the absence of the guild leader for a long period of time, people began to see me as the guild leader as well. Eight months in, I was tagged with the guild leadership officially. I now had seven officers and in the neighborhood of 120 guild members counting on me to be there. By now, I wasn't playing 2-3 hours a day, I was playing 8-12 hours a day. It wasn't reality, but it felt real enough - I was important to people and interacting with "society." Along the way, I met a girl from the other side of the US and we had a fairly turbulent relationship(mostly due to her being bipolar), but we were in love and planned to get married. I knew that EQ was taking up my entire life, but my girlfriend was there and that's how we spent time together from 3k miles apart and I was the engine the drove hundreds of cogs. At our peak, we had 1039 tagged toons.
This spring, my relationship of two years ended with her and at the same time, the officers staged a coup as the pressures from EQ's death throes were mounting (yeah, EQ is dying, netcraft, server consolidations and mmogchart confirm it). About a month after I left the girl and my guild, I realized that I no longer had a reason to play and I simply logged off one night never to return again. That was three months ago last weekend.
For me, it wasn't a game I was addicted to, it was all the social interaction, feeling important and spending time with my gf. After years of being depressed, it was nice to be somebody even if it didn't mean anything in real life. After the way things ended, my biggest regret is that the things that helped me break that addiction didn't happen earlier. Oddly enough, despite becoming "nothing" again, I haven't been depressed and I find myself enjoying the mundane things in life that I neglected for 2.5 years. I still frequently think about EQ and some of the fun times I had in it, but I have no urge to play it anymore... and I deliberately avoid anything that might suck me into a similar situation again. In the meantime, I'm trying to rebuild my life even though I feel that I'm fighting an uphill struggle now at 29.
Our brains are an electro-chemical system and I would argue that the stimuli that make you feel important and good about yourself can be just as addicting as putting that cigarette up to your lips, especially when you and the rest of the world appear to have given up on each other. At 21, when you still have pretty much everything going for you and life hasn't completely knocked every one of your plans for the future out of whack, it's pretty easy to think idealistically about how everyone should be able to feel/be/do exactly like you.
Re:wha? (Score:2, Troll)
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Re:wha? (Score:2, Insightful)
Why did it not 'mean' anything in real life?
Are the people on the other end of those guildies not real people?
Did they not enjoy your company/help/etc?
Perhaps they needed a connection with someone as much as you did?
Seems like you could be affecting real life, possibly more lives than otherwise.
--in the same vein--
What would be real life then?
Anything past eating,pooping,sleeping ? (and sleeping doesn't even FEEL all that real
Bowlin
Re:wha? (Score:3, Informative)
Are the people on the other end of those guildies not real people?
Did they not enjoy your company/help/etc?
Perhaps they needed a connection with someone as much as you did?
Seems like you could be affecting real life, possibly more lives than otherwise.
That's the exact line of reasoning I used to justify what I was doing. That EQ wasn't simply a game, that it meant much more than that, especially given that my gf and I would use it as our form of dating b
Re:wha? (Score:3, Insightful)
Why is your experience not 'real life'? (Score:5, Insightful)
Before Everquest existed, I 'was somebody' online - ran a guild on a MUD (although not as big as yours), and eventually even ended up running the MUD itself. There were definitely some stretches where I'd often spend 16 hours a day on the computer.
But I've also 'been somebody' in real life too. I have a real job with real responsibilities and most of the people I work with I have met once, or no times at all, and interact with almost entirely via computer. I'm also the president of one national non-profit organization with a few thousand members I never see, and run another business with 30,000 customers I don't see either.
And I find that I often spend 16 hours a day on the computer.
Now, most people would consider my job, my non-profit, and my business to be 'real life', and I enjoy them. So why are people who enjoy spending 16 hours a day doing something else on the computer not doing 'real life'? I really can't think of anything that's much different between the 16 hours a day I spend playing networked computer games and the 16 hours a day I spend doing various forms of (enjoyable) work. And while you may have felt compelled to play more everquest because people were depending on you, how is that any different than me feeling compelled to go to work for the same reason?
Computer games are certainly no less productive than the time I've spent shooting pool at the bar. But somehow going out and shooting pool at the bar is OK while playing games at home is not - why? Also, why is someone who spends 16 hours a day reading books and/or watching TV considered to be doing 'real life'? All you're trading is a networked screen with a non-networked screen or page.
Playing on the computer a lot, in and of itself, isn't an addiction. It's only natural that you're going to do the things you enjoy doing as much as you can, and playing computer games isn't any different than reading or anything else, except people who do those other activities want to pretend their life is more meaningful than computer gamers I guess.
People need to understand what an addiction really is. If you are COMPELLED to do something so much that it interferes with your ability to pay your rent, feed yourself, or maintain relationships that are important to you, that's an addiction. If it consumes all of your free time, that's just recreation. And I think it's a tragedy to try and label someone an 'addict' just because of their prefered form of recreation.
Anyway, the time you spend on EQ was real life. And it wasn't because you were 'addicted', it's because you enjoyed it. Not playing anymore wasn't an addiction-ending event; you just stopped enjoying playing so you stopped playing. Simple as that.
Re:Why is your experience not 'real life'? (Score:3, Informative)
I had over 200 days played on just my main character over the course of the 927 days that I played. I had a further 60ish days played on my main alt, 120ish on my bazaar mule (of which, I was probably present for at least 50% of) and another 20 or so on my oth
Re:Why is your experience not 'real life'? (Score:3, Funny)
Re:wha? (Score:2)
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Are you really enjoying your marriage then? Seriously, I've heard of (and spoken to) a lot of people in situations like this on both sides, and I begin to wonder at the point of the marriage at all. A lot of 'em don't even sp
will power? (Score:2)
Re:wha? (Score:2)
Trust me, if you're 21 (and in fair health) you do not feel like an "old fogey". Just wait 25 years and you'll understand what I'm talking about. If you wake up in the morning and nothing hurts.. you'll know you've died.
I quit my job due to game addiction... (Score:3, Insightful)
Re:I quit my job due to game addiction... (Score:2)
When you quit, was it kind of like a planned extended vacation where you would get a job after a certain period of time, or did you just play WoW and not think about the future?
Just curious.
Re:I quit my job due to game addiction... (Score:2, Insightful)
Now I restrict myself to raiding (Sun/Tues 6:30 thru Midnight and Mon/Wed 7:30 thru Midnight). I feel this is a pretty reasonable compromise.
I am again working full time...
When I quit I had saved up quite a bit of money and I just decided to live off that. Getting back into the work environment was a pretty serindipidious (sp?) event, an old friend called me and had a job opening, and I had decided I had to start working again.
offtopic: i don't understand why I was modded troll. I ma
Re:I quit my job due to game addiction... (Score:2, Insightful)
Not meaing to be insensitve, but doesn't anyone else think 20 hours (4 evenings) a week devoted to a video game is still an addiction? I mean 20 hours a week is a lot of time and still obsessive in my book. I doubt that most people on their deathbed wished that they had spent more time playing video games. At those times, it's regrets about people and relationships th
Re:I quit my job due to game addiction... (Score:2)
so i guess most people are addicted to TV then? Personally i appear to be addicted to cooking and working as well. Just because you do something alot doesnt mean you are addicted to it. Its a loaded word that is quite overused.
"I doubt that most people on their deathbed wished that they had spent more time playing video games. At those times, it's regrets about people and r
Re:I quit my job due to game addiction... (Score:2)
I work because I'm "addicted" to getting paid.
I also admit to being "addicted" to bicycling.
Re:I quit my job due to game addiction... (Score:2)
Addiction isn't a matter of time spent (Score:2)
There's nothing wrong with having the one thign you like doing, the only problem, the time when it starts ecomming an addicton, is when you do it to the exc
Re:I quit my job due to game addiction... (Score:2)
Overreactive parents (Score:5, Insightful)
I think for the most part it's a result of overreactive parents, combined with what I like to call "baby sitter syndrome" ("Why won't the public school teach my kids morals?!?! Why won't the gov't baby sit my kids?!?! Oh my, my kids are playing video games all the time, and I can't turn it off because they cry and scream and make a scene! I need a Gaming Clinic/Baby sitter to fix my kids for me!")
Disclaimer: I don't have kids of my own so the above is probably warped by views of other people who don't have kids of their own, not to mention stereotypes are rarely all-encompassing. Don't take it too personally. I was, however, at one point a kid, and I did have parents (who restricted my video gaming and computer time) so I think I still have some things to say on the matter.
Gaming for me was a phase. I always have enjoyed a good game, but it's not the same as it was when I was a kid. I would play games for hours on end, but now it seems my standards are higher or my attention span lower, because games don't tend to "hook" me as often as they used to.
I still enjoy a good game of course, but I think I'm still largely "gamed out" from when I was a kid.
Game addiction is real but not a big deal (Score:5, Interesting)
However, for all that, I don't think that gaming addiction is all that common- compared to alcholism [wikipedia.org] or compulsive gambling [wikipedia.org] the number of gaming 'addicts' are trivial. Also, gaming is less physically harmful than alcohol or drugs, and much cheaper to indulge in than compulsive gambling.
I suspect that the same people who are susceptible to compulsive gambling are also the compulsive gamers, so research on the larger, more important issue (compulsive gambling) might also help compulsive gamers.
Re:Game addiction is real but not a big deal (Score:5, Interesting)
All of these non-chemical addictions seem to have the same core symptoms. People do something that makes them feel good. They do it often and begin to notice other things don't feel good anymore, then they notice they need to do this new thing more and more to keep the good feeling coming. Just because our brain makes a chemical doesn't mean it won't acquire a tolerance to it.
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Re:Game addiction is real but not a big deal (Score:2)
I do know that as someone who is highly susceptible to addictive behavior I hope to see a lot more research in this area. Behavior control is damn hard, and its frustrating to sometimes have to abandon things early to avoid letting them ru
Re:Game addiction is real but not a big deal (Score:2)
Some people do not have this tolerance, there are people out there who never get bored with certain depth of repetition.
Boredom is survival function, but in some people it simply does not work in the same wa
Re:Game addiction is real but not a big deal (Score:2)
I can quit (Score:4, Funny)
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What to call it (Score:3, Funny)
I do. That one looks like Ian the inferno, but last time Steve Scorchup seemed more appropriate.
Financial incentive for this "addiction"? (Score:4, Interesting)
Are these "addicts" getting the Dutch equivalent of disability payments for this bullshit?
-Eric
Re:Financial incentive for this "addiction"? (Score:2)
Re:Financial incentive for this "addiction"? (Score:2)
My knee-jerk reaction is that "think of the children" is one of the traditional sales pitches for snakeoil (in it's many forms - services, products, politics, religion, etc.).
Addiction? (Score:5, Funny)
Metaphor? I didn't even know her! (Score:2)
From TFA:
Am I the only one who finds that metaphor a bit puzzling? Maybe it works better in Dutch or something.
Re:Metaphor? I didn't even know her! (Score:2)
I think the metaphor is an apt one. If there's a serious problem and harm is taking place, does it really matter what you call it?
Well, yes, if you want to do the right thing about it. If a car is on fire it does you no good to call it a bad perm and try to give it a haircut. It's not even wise to treat it as you would some other kind of fire; since what's burning is petroleum you need the correct technique for extinguishing it.
So this is a problem, yes. Is it an addiction? Can you treat it as one with
of course we are addicted (Score:2)
"gamers", as he calls them (Score:2, Funny)
Ohh! gamers huh? Thats a pretty good name that you just came up with Mr. Bakker!!! (In his defence, I'm sure its the fault of The Australian and their staff)
Being a normal teenager is not a crime or a... (Score:3, Insightful)
Re:Being a normal teenager is not a crime or a... (Score:2, Insightful)
And you know what we do with those kinds of kids? Give them dr
Game addiction? (Score:4, Insightful)
If it looks like a fish, smells like a fish... (Score:2)
If it has all the conditions of obsessive-compulsive disorder, then guess what it might be? It might just be, gasp, obsessive-compulsive disorder!
Blaming a videogame on something which they admit, looks like OCD, is ve
obligatory link (Score:2, Funny)
http://www.civanon.com/ [civanon.com]
I didn't RTFA, but... (Score:2)
Just pull the plug and sell your console (Score:2)
How is this different from skateboarding... (Score:2)
... or basketball, soccer, or any other countless things that kids "waste" their time doing? These things are arguably even detrimental: the kids could be learning a marketable trade instead of spending their time learning a skill that has little to no value in the real world.
I question the validity of any "science" that assumes that computer-gaming habits are inherently different from other things kids waste their time doing, without proper evidence-backed arguments supporting such differentiation.
come on (Score:2, Insightful)
When I was a kid my parents didn't put up with this behaviour. Playing too much video games? Cut power to my room! Harsh? I hardly think so.
I blame a lot of this kind of trash on pussy foot parents.
Parents have to be involved with kids. You can't raise a good kid though this bullshit of purely peace, love and happiness and "non aggression". Not to be confused with hitting children. Parents can't just let kids get away with things and think pills or avoi
Excessive gaming = covering other problems (Score:3, Interesting)
My advice to parents is to pay attention to their children and what the messages their children send. It is really important to be able to tell what's bugging your kid and deal with it.
Re:Nothing like FUD... (Score:3, Insightful)
Re:Nothing like FUD... (Score:2)
Clinic = Dutch
I think the tinfoil hat is on a little too tight.
Re:Nothing like FUD... (Score:2, Insightful)
Re:Self-control (Score:3, Insightful)
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