Not Just Playing House 83
RexDart writes "Tom's Hardware has posted an interview with the founders of PMS Clan, the high-profile, international female gaming group with the mission of 'providing a fun and competitive environment for female gamers in a wide variety of first person shooter' games. They speak out on topics from how to get started and what to play, clan organization, censorship, online harrassment, and the role of female characters in games. Plus, why and how they allow males in their group as well."
Interesting article, but... (Score:5, Insightful)
A clan of women makes sense. They are a significant minority in online games, and with the way males online tend to act with women, I can see how this kind of supportive group can work. This clan is giving a conflicting image, though. "We're women, we game, don't objectify us" gets a little fuzzy when you're posting Gen13-style art and Charlie's Angels silhouettes as representations of who you are.
Re:Interesting article, but... (Score:5, Informative)
Nah. Must be that woman gamers actually DO look like porn stars, that women DO like to cuddle, kiss,and have naked pillow fights with each other, and that, although they discuss how much they hate Lara Croft for being a sex symbol, and want more realistic women in games, they, like all women, love being objectified and wearing tight pink shirts.
Aaaah. Corporate-sponsored feminism.
Corporate-sponsored feminism (Score:1)
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Now, I'm all for the diversification of my chosen sport, but come on, this is just ridiculous.
I think there are two kinds of female gamers:
First you have your 'girl gamers'. These are gamers who happen to be women. They like to play games. That's why they're gamers.
The other kind of female gamer is the 'gamer girl'. These are girls first, gamers second. Nothing wrong with that, but it's the same as macho gamers. They're frat boys, wrestling fans, and football junkees first, gamers second.
There's nothing wrong with either one, I would just rather play with the women who are more interested in shooting people in the head than discussing how they're objectified and downtrodden by males.
One last thing: The cliche 'OMG I'm a woman!' article in every gaming magazine and on every gaming site.
Can you just discuss things like normal people? We get it. You're women. OMG. Stop discussing how dumb women are in games. Stop discussing the 'female point of view'. Just talk about the games like other columnists.
It's women like this that are alienating themselves from the culture, not the other way around.
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Personally I refer to myself as a Gamer Grrl - I design and play all sorts of games, have been paid to design games and have edited published games. I don't see why the order of the words are particularly significant.
Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism (Score:2)
What I'm saying is that some women are gamers, and some women are girls who enjoy playing games, just like some guys are gamers, and some guys just enjoy playing games.
I'm saying these are women first, gamers second.
Some girls, like you, probably, are more hardcore gamers, and are really just interested in the games. Other girls like the "gamer girl" title, but really aren't hardcore.
Also, these women seem to want to differentiate themselves from the other
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All I'm saying is that these women are a little bit sexist. If I started a male-only club, called the Mach Men, and I had ad banners with big freaking hulking dudes, and I had a decidedly blue color scheme on my site, and I told women they could be my cheerleaders, or whatever, I would catch a lot of grief.
Equality doesn't mean superiority.
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Macgrrl is a nick I've had for over a decade now - and come from the fact that I was the only 'Girl' working in the service department of a Mac Dealer from some years. I was at the Mac workshop, was the only girl - hence, the Mac Girl. The nick stuck.
Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism (Score:2, Interesting)
Mistake #1 - we don't WANT to be "one of the guys". To suggest that implies that gaming is your territory, and that we need your "permission" to be allowed to play. And that's total bullshit.
I want to make it clear I'm a girl so that guys can be aware that we do play. Some guys are fine with it, and it quickly becomes just my g
Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism (Score:2)
Then you want to be treated, in an online world, like women are treated in our society?
Help me clarify here.
I'm using 'one of the guys' as it is normally used: To signify equal treatment in a primarily male-dominated activity. Like gaming. No, you don't need anyone's permission to play.
Now, you don't want to go into a server and have everybody think "buh-buh-buh-boobies?!? I better A/S/L her.", do you?
You want to go into a server and receive the standar
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WE DON'T CARE. Just play the damned game.
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But then again, I have to wonder - if you really don't care, they why do you care if we're making it a point to let people know we're female?
For example, I'm also gay - and I've seen enough of the "I don't care if you're gay, just do it in private" attitude to realize that what's being said doesn't fit the person's actual attitude. If someone didn't care if I was gay, they also wouldn
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"Look at me! I'm gay! You must respect me! You must accept me!"
"Look at me! I'm a gamer girl! Take me seriously! I'm not a girly girl!"
It's all pretty much the same thing. People don't go around flaunting their straightness, much like guys in game don't go around flaunting their maleness (not to be confused with macho men/pricks).
Some people will care if you're gay. In which case it doesn't help any to be in their face about it. Some won't. In which
Re:Corporate-sponsored feminism (Score:1)
Bull-fucking-shit.
People do it ALL THE TIME. Just that unless you're specifically looking for it and thinking about it, you don't even see it, it's so normal and accepted.
The couple walking down the street holding hands. The girl showing off her engagement ring. The teenage boy with the "bikini inspector" shirt. The photograph of the wife and kids on some guy's desk at work. And countless other things.
Relationships are a BIG part of life. You can't do
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Surely you meant to say the straight couple? Or should the rest of us assume that a "couple" implies 2 straight people?
Gay girls can't get engaged? Or even wear rings symbolizing their commitment?
Teenage boy? Oh, come on. He might just be gay and in denial.
Which way is that pho
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If you're willing to just game, not because it's trendy, not because it makes you cool, but because you like to game, hell, plug in a controller and hit start.
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There's a whole group of us.
We even have a website [pmsclan.com].
Imagine that.
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So now I wonder, is there a division in your ranks between the gamers and the "Frag Dolls"? (btw, this is great, I have two new phrases to use thanks to this thread)
Re:Interesting article, but... (Score:2, Interesting)
Some of our members are also Frag Dolls, and they're the scariest, craziest, most hardcore gaming ladies you'll ever meet. Just make sure you're not the wrong end of their SMGs...
As for any division in our ranks, well; we all
Re:Interesting article, but... (Score:1)
As Mistletoe said, there is overlap between PMS and the Frag Dolls.
And I've been gaming since I was like 6, I have about a dozen consoles at home, and am playing something just about every single day. And the Dolls and some of the PMS girls make me look like a casual gamer in comparison. It's almost scary how hardcore they are.
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Find yourself a chance to play with some of the top girls in our clan, and say that again. After you've been seriously pwn3d, that is.
While being great at gaming is not a requirement to get into PMS (though a good attitude and sportsma
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Yes, us 'braindead idiots' sure are a pain in the ass to play with. Boy, men sure suck.
I'm not trying to get any feminists mad or anything, but your clan is sexist.
Maybe you have some good gamers. I don't know, I've never played anything against you. I do know, however, that this positive media attention is undeserved, as, according to one of the PMS founders in TFA, they usually finish near the middle of most tournaments. That's mediocrity.
We don't need any of this "Boys VS
Re:Interesting article, but... (Score:1)
And considering the amount of people that I've played with after joining PMS, large numbers of people with overall positive attitudes and good personalities, I'd say we're hardly alienating ourselves from gaming culture. Just the opposite - we're a definite part of it, just a part that excludes the "gaming is guys'
Re:Interesting article, but... (Score:2)
Why is it then that you have to submit a picture of yourself as part of an application into the Frag Dolls? I've never seen that requirement for a non-all female clan.
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However, just because Ubi decided to consider appearance, doesn't mean that's ALL they considered. If you dig up old blog entries on the Frag Dolls site, you'll see some descriptions of the process they went through. Demo
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Fair enough, I guess my initial skepticism of the Frag Dolls was somewhat unfounded. If Ubi were to do an all male clan, I could see them making the same requirement.
Thanks for the insight!
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And in the meantime, I'm rooting for a friend of mine to be chosen to fill the open spot on the Frag Dolls.
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Followed by woman's voice: shut up, the phones!
I leave it to you what conclusion to draw.
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To add more worthless anecdotally supported stereotypes, I have to mention that maybe 1/3rd of the time that I come across a female CS wonk on the web or on Slashdot, that person is actually transgender. (Read through the journal here [slashdot.org] for my latest find.) I read an interesting book by Bailey a while back, in which he
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I read the article, and looked at their webpage. I do not recall anything about them not wanting to be desirable or objectified. Perhaps you came up with that feminist stereotype on your own or I just missed that part. If men can't take women seriously when they (women) look good that is the man's hangup not the woman's.
Do you take a man more seriously if he is wearing tattered jeans and wrinkled tee-shirt or a business suit?
I agree that PMS is a corny name for
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I have no problem with a good-looking female gamer. The problem I have is the imagery they use to depict themselves is the same kind of stuff some women rail against as objectifying them. Hence the conflicting message.
The name is pretty funny, but if their goal is to have women taken seriously in the gaming wor
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History Tidbit (Score:3, Insightful)
brings back memories (Score:2)
A/S/L (Score:3, Interesting)
This is not insightful, it's obvious. Is there a mod for that?
Does gender matter online? (Score:2)
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I can only speak for myself, of course, but the gaming stats being the way they are, I assume that everyone I come across online is male, until something tells me otherwise. It doesn't actually make a difference, tho, I don't "hit" on other people online, I don't usually roleplay, and I'll be damned if I'm going to "cyber".
If you are a guildmate, I'll lend you a hand/quest with you if I can, regardless of your RL gender
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Female players (Score:5, Insightful)
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as a guy i NEVER use the talk feature it breaks the mood of the game for me to hear random background noise as people talk to family members and stuff. UT 2004 TTS is a good tool though, lets you hear what others are typing rather than look down and read.
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You're supposed to be a serious clan? That why'd you name yourself over the subject of so much joking? Isn't the quintessential male dismissal of an upset female simply blaming it on PMS?
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And no, it's not easy to think up something better. For starters, it depends on what's suitable for a clantag.
Are you limited to 3 or 4 letters? (GRLZ)
Can the reference be subtle? (Gamers In Real Life)
Presumptuous? (Goddesses of Game)
Edgy? (Motherfraggers)
Re:Female players (Score:1)
As for suitability: Ideally 3 letters long as either an acronym or word, that makes it easy to register consistent gamer tags, gamer names and clan names across games. Subtle is good, though something like "Gamers
Re:Female players (Score:1)
Please, tell me you're kidding!
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Someone mod this up.
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Online games have gender? (Score:1)
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I don't see why Clan PMS is turning everything into Boys VS Girls. It doesn't have to be like that. I just wish we could all settle down about this whole thing.
double standard, hypocrites (Score:2)
Why is this blatant sexism any less disgusting because a female does it. Novelty? Because (some) men *like* the idea of being sexploited?
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Re:double standard, hypocrites (Score:2)
I don't consider myself a 'guy gamer' and I don't consider my female gaming friends 'girl gamers'. I'm a gamer, and they're gamers. We are people who play games.
Key word: People.
As long as you're advertising that you're a female gaming clan, full of 'girl gamers' then you're not interested in any kind of equality. You're just attention
Makes you want to have your own! (Score:1)
</double standards>
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Wow (Score:1)